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[Misskitz]

I'm asking this question to most of the chat groups about I'm in so i need to ask my favorite one.    So my friend told me I'm not her friend anyore because i brag alot which I don't do alot ok so maybe twice a week but I have a busy life, So i need to know do i brag alot? 

[null]

If she says she doesn't want to be your friend now, then she was never really your friend. Whether you brag a lot or not really isn't the issue. If she can't accept you the way you are then she doesn't deserve to be your friend in the first place.

[chinchillagrl06]

I agree with null 100% a true friend would never stop being your friend, especially about something silly like that. I have a little quote on my desk that says, "If you can't accept me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best".

[Abby W.]

I totally agree.  A real friend would not throw away a friendship so easily.  True friends value each other for who they are.  And if one does something that bothers the other they talk it out, not decide never to talk again.

[chinclub]

I agree with everyone else.  Some people are just funny that way.  I remember one of my friends when I was younger was constantly "not my friend" whenever things didn't go her way.   

Don't let it upset you.

[Jo Ann]

     FRIEND ... a patron, a supporter, a person who is not hostile, a person attached to another by affection or regard, easy to understand, one who is held in high regard and respect.

      ACQUAINTANCE ... a person one knows casually, without personal commetment.

    A true friend is without reservations, unless you do something to them or to someone/something they care about that is detrimental ... then you have ended the friendship by betraying it.

    Boasting is not good, and people can get tired of it very quickly, because it is irritating, but a true friend would try to help you get away from doing it, not walk away from you.

    An aquaintance is one who does not comment ... sounds like she is more of an aquaintance than anything else.

    True friends are a rare treasure, aquaintances are many. 

 
Jo Ann

[Stacy]

A real friend would not say that just because you did something that bugged her. At your age you will have a lot of people that will say they are your friend but you will find out that some of them really are not. Thats just a part of life.

[Debbie.nl.ca]

Sometimes friendships need to go through some growing pains too.
Can this be a learning experience for your friendship, or just you?
Things have a way of working themselves out, and even if it's without the friendship, be true to yourself. Your who you'll see when you look in the mirror, just be sure you like who you see.
You know right from wrong, so just keep your heart in the right place, and except what will be will be.

[Misskitz]

Ok, but I really don't want to be her friend because she did something to an animal that really upset me so yeah.  I really treasure one best Friend though Sadie who helped me through thick and thin. Noor compared to Sadie is nothing. Thanks for the help guys, i also know who to come to when i need help chinchillas or not. 

P.S. i don't really brag its just with modeling school and modeling i want a friend who will say "Thats great" or "neat, way too go" Not "your spoiled" or "Stop bragging" like Noor does.

[Summer]

I agree with the others, I'm going though something similarly. 

[Leslie]

Sometimes people mistake bragging for someone that just knows alot and wants to share their knowledge.  

Maybe your friend is jealous that you have things to brag about and she doesn't?  Since when is bragging such a bad thing anyways?   A little bit of talking about the good things in your life should be allowed.

[Misskitz]

Yes, Leslie shes really jealous because i have a big house, can pay 700$ bucks for Modeling school and so on and so on. She Lives in a small house but its nice and can't afford much but still i was just saying how excited i was.

[chinclub]

Modeling School is so much fun!!  I did that when I was younger.  We went to compititions and I had a few local jobs.  It was great.  You will really enjoy that.

[chinchillagrl06]

I used to do modeling when I was in elementary and middle school. It was so much fun. I mostly did local things, I had a blast. I would be excited too. In high school, I stopped modeling, but I used to go with my cousin to open auditions in LA all the time to get pictures with celebrities. It was so funny, we used to get so excited about these soap stars and we didn't even know who they were!  Your friend should be happy for you getting to do something so fun.