We got our two from a rescue when they were about 4, and we are their 4th home, so it took a while for them to trust us. Neither like being held (although Toby is easier to pick up than Sammy), but I lie on the floor during playtime and they use me as a climbing frame! I also don't wear shoes or socks, as they like to groom my feet. Toby likes having his tummy tickled when he's in his cage, but Sammy pushes me away (he's such a diva!) - chins have different personalities and some just aren't that affectionate. It makes it double special when they climb on you or give you a kiss though! I've also found that they climb on me more if I've been away for a night or two (leaving them in my husband or parent's capable hands of course), so they must love me really!